OK, so you like a dude but you don't talk to him much in person. Facebook can help. Use these instructions to help flirt over Facebook.

Steps

  1. 1
    Chat with him. If he is online simply say "hey" but make sure you don't always start the conversation though let him sometimes.
  2. 2
    If he replies, say "cool" or if it is a negative statement say "that's crappy, are you ok?", unless he says "what about you?". Then simply say you are fine or nothing much is really going on.
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  3. 3
    Relax. It's over the internet... not even face to face, it's very simple and don't freak out.
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    Laugh at his jokes. Laugh at his jokes even when they aren't funny. Guys like that.
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    Ask him about something he likes. Maybe he's a music lover, ask him his fave song. Or sports type, ask him his fave team. You get the idea.
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    If he isn't online, send him a message asking about a current event going on in your area. Nothing going on? Ask about homework if he goes to your school. If he goes to a different school then say your friend had mentioned that he is funny and you two could be great friends.
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    If he talks to you for hours, that is a good sign. Make sure he is single though.
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    Talk to his friends. Make sure he likes you before you ever mention a word of you liking him.
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    If you ask him out.... never do it online. Always make it in person. Unless you can't.
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    Say something funny. But don't try too hard and don't laugh at everything he says. Especially if he's being serious.
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    Be confident! If you don't trust yourself, how can he?
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Community Q&A

  • Question
    He talks to me on FB, but he is quiet and brief. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    That could be a sign that he isn't interested or he just isn't the chatty type and is only checking updates in between massive bouts of gaming. Really, a lot of people don't live on Facebook but use it interspersed between all their other activities. But you could ask him about his hobbies and get him to open up more.
  • Question
    I love someone but he loves someone else. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    You're going to have to accept that and move on.
  • Question
    What if I was his girlfriend but we broke up and now he's chatting with me again, saying how much he missed me?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Be cautious, especially if he hurt you before. It's possible that he's being sincere, but he might also be trying to use or play you. Be friendly with him for now, but take it slow.
  • Question
    How can I make him know that I like him? He never texts me first. What can I do?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    He knows you like him. Don't push it. Stop texting for a while. If he likes you, he'll wonder why you're not texting him anymore, and almost certainly text you first. However, if he doesn't text you (because he doesn't like you) you'll know and you can stop wasting your time on someone who doesn't deserve it.
  • Question
    What if the guy knows I like him?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Play it cool and relax, chances are he might like you back and is just too nervous to say so. If he doesn't like you back, stay connected but start talking to someone else if you feel like moving on.
  • Question
    What if I like him but he starts ignoring me because he does not like me back?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Reach a place of acceptance because he isn't going to change with more goading from you. Let him be and spend your time caring about your friends and interests, during which time someone who cares about you will come along. Don't waste your energies on a person who ignores you all the time.
  • Question
    What do I say when someone asks who I am?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Tell them who you are as an individual and aspects of your personality. Tell the truth if you trust the guy but don't get too personal.
  • Question
    What if I've never talked to the guy in person? Won't it be creepy to message him?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Actually, online communication is so normal now that many people find it easier to communicate via instant messaging. Unless you do something overtly creepy, he probably won't think it's anything but normal.
  • Question
    How do I have a relationship on Facebook?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    If you're asking how to put a relationship on Facebook, you can do that in your profile settings. If you're asking how to start a relationship on Facebook, then just start by sending chats to the person you're interested in. That will give you the opportunity to get to know them like you would in any other dating situation.
  • Question
    What should I do if a guy I like isn't replying?
    Community Answer
    Community Answer
    Ask him in a joking way why's he not replying to you. For example, say (with an emoji to lighten the mood): "You're not avoiding me, are you?! 😂" If that doesn't work, say it in person, but if you can't then just ignore him, don't make yourself seem desperate.

Warnings

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Updated: March 19, 2020
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Categories: Facebook
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