Someone texted you a thumbs up emoji, and now you’re second-guessing what they actually mean by it. Is the thumbs up emoji just an innocent way of saying “OK,” or is it actually passive-aggressive or rude? To help you get to the bottom of things, we’ve put together a list of all the different possible meanings of the thumbs up emoji so you can figure out the best way to respond.

Method 3
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It could be their way of saying “Thanks!”

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    Leave the text alone to let the conversation end on a high note. This use of the 👍 most likely means the text conversation is over—in a good way! The sender is thanking you for something, whether it be a picture or a thoughtful response. Either way, there’s no need to respond back as this is their way of letting you know they’re grateful.[3]
    • Maybe a friend reaches out to ask you if you have a picture you took of them. You may say, “Sure thing!” and send the picture their way. By replying with a 👍, your friend is thanking you for sending the picture.

Method 5
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It might be them saying “Whatever.”

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    In this case, you could send them an 🙄 in return. A thumbs up emoji can actually be passive-aggressive in certain contexts. If you’re texting someone and expecting a thoughtful reply or a detailed response and they send you a 👍 instead, they might be annoyed.[5]
    • Let’s say you come home to a dirty apartment, even though you asked your roommate to clean up their mess. You text them asking them to please be more mindful of keeping the space clean, and all you get back from them is a 👍. In this case, they might be annoyed and sending a 👍 as a passive-aggressive way of letting you know it.

Method 6
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It could be them saying “I approve.”

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    Respond back with an excited “Thank you!” The 👍 can be used as a gesture for approval, and the sender is letting you know they approve of whatever you’re doing. You can let the conversation fade after your thanks, or keep it going if you have more to tell them.[6]
    • Maybe you’re redecorating your living room and are sending pictures to your partner while they’re out. You just moved the couch and want to get their approval before you move to the next step. You snap a picture of its new location and send it their way. They reply with a simple 👍 to let you know they like the new placement.

Method 7
Method 7 of 10:
It might be them telling you “Cool!”

Method 8
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It could possibly be them telling you to “Get lost.”

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    Dip out of the text conversation in response. Two 👍s can be used as a way to tell you to go away—a passive-aggressive reply to whatever you sent. Maybe you’re in an argument with a friend or are trying to win over a sour colleague. Either way, they are upset and have sent you the emoji to tell you they just want to be alone.[8]
    • Emoticons are all up to interpretation, which is why they are so fun to use but can also lead to misunderstandings. If you’re in a heated discussion with someone and they send you a 👍, maybe leave the text thread to avoid hostility.

Method 10
Method 10 of 10:
It might be their way of giving you the “Green light.”

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Aly Rusciano
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This article was co-authored by wikiHow staff writer, Aly Rusciano. Aly Rusciano is a Creative Writer based outside of Nashville, Tennessee. She has over ten years of experience in creative, academic, and professional writing. Aly’s writing has been nationally recognized in the Sigma Tau Delta Rectangle and featured in Blue Marble Review, The Sunshine Review, PopMatters, and Cathartic Literary Magazine. She graduated from The University of Tennessee at Martin with a BA in English, focusing in Creative Writing and a Minor in Theatre. This article has been viewed 3,139 times.
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