How to Deal with Your BFF Bringing in a Lesbian Girl Into the Group

Make an effort to be open. Nobody expects you to be open and accepting on the first date. However, you must recognize that anyone in the LGBT community is still a human being. If at all possible, you should try to get to know them. Even if you disagree with the LGBT community or same-sex couples, they are still people who deserve to be respected. Your opinion is valid, even if they do not agree with everything you do; however, keep in mind that theirs is as well. Simply be respectful!

Take a breath. Lesbians and other LGBT+ individuals aren't looking for just anyone. They are ordinary people—k eep in mind that humans are supposed to be respected and treated fairly. Keep in mind the golden rule: "Treat others as you would like to be treated." 

If you feel uneasy, take a step back. It's as simple as that; all you have to do is put up with a little bit of conversation before never speaking to this person again. It may be awkward, but being nice to the person is all that is required. Don't pass judgment. Hate that person for being who they are; they can't help themselves.

Talk to your friend and have a private conversation if you need to. If your friend is also a closeted lesbian, being open about uncomfortable and 'bigotry' will only cause chaos and may end two friendships at once.