How to Seduce a Libra Woman

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Last Updated: December 18, 2021 References

A Libra woman will charm you in conversation, then dazzle you with a kiss. If you're looking for ways to seduce this super exciting sign, it's totally understandable. A Libra's desires are pretty straightforward; they love good hearts and great romance. There are tons of ways to be more attractive in her eyes, and we've made a simple list for you below. To learn how to attract a Libra woman, read on.

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Move quickly.

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Libra women have tons of admirers, so act fast. She’s full of energy, charisma, and a longing for romance. So yes, she’ll probably have attracted a few suitors already. Her natural indecisiveness may mean that she’ll still be making up her mind, but she won't be unattached forever. So, if you’re hoping to grab her attention and beat the crowd, speed will be important!^{[1]
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Celebrate her.

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Libra women want to be the apple of their crush’s eye. She’ll want to be openly admired for everything from her gorgeous eyes, to her sharp mind, to the shoes she matched with her top. She wants to be the center of your attention, the star of the show. So, make sure she knows that she is!^{[2]
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- When you’re out in public together, try turning your group's conversation back to your Libra when you can. If something comes up that reminds you of her, use that.
- Give her the floor by saying something like, "Speaking of dogs, [Libra's pet] did the funniest thing last week. You should tell them about it!"
- When she’s telling a story, show tons of enthusiasm. Laugh at her jokes, nod your head when she makes a point, and listen closely.
- She’ll be super into you if you prove that you know how to celebrate her. This shows that you see her worth, and Libra women find this totally attractive.

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Be a showstopper.

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A Libra wants her crush to be adored, just like her. So, put on a show. She loves a sparkling conversationalist, so if you can, be chatty, funny, and a total social butterfly. If she sees that you’re the life of the party and someone everyone wants to speak to, that’ll be appealing to her.^{[3]
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- When you go out together, try making the rounds. Make it your goal to chat up at least half of the room.

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Love the way you look.

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Libras have an eye for aesthetics, so play up your appearance. By spending a little extra time pulling together your physical charms, you’ll have definitely raised your chances of getting with a Libra woman. Remember though, beauty is really all about confidence. So, most of all, make sure you feel fabulous.^{[4]
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- Buy a new outfit that makes you feel hot and confident. Wear that the next time you’re around her.
- Spend an extra ten minutes fine-tuning your appearance. At second look, you might decide that your jeans are better when rolled to your ankles. Or maybe you'll realize you should add earrings to your fit.
- Try a few mirror affirmations to raise your confidence before you hit the town. Look at your reflection and say, “I am radiant, I am confident, I deserve the best.”

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Be kind and respectful.

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To a Libra woman, rudeness will be the biggest turn-off imaginable. Sometimes people think that talking down to others makes themselves look better, but with a Libra, this will be game over. Instead, focus on treating everyone you interact with the way you’d like to be treated, including her.^{[5]
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- If you go out to dinner with a Libra woman, make sure you're polite to waitstaff. You could even ask a couple personal questions, like, “Has it been pretty busy tonight?”
- In a Libras book, kindness is cool. In fact, to her, kindness is sexy!

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Compliment her.

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Flattery is basically a Libra woman’s love language. If she gets a haircut, compliment her. If she buys a new blouse, compliment it. There doesn't even need to be a specific occasion to openly adore her. Any super sweet comments about her looks, personality, or values will go a long way. Try out one of these examples below.^{[6]
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- ”Your hair looks especially shiny tonight. Did you do something different?”
- “You’re such a good listener. It’s so nice to be around. I bet people tell you that all the time, though!”
- ”I really appreciate how much you value your work. It’s exciting to see you be so creative and ambitious.”

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Listen to her.

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Libra women are attracted to great listeners. Women of this sign feel like they need to please everyone all the time, so they constantly fall into one-sided chats. Their conversation partners may talk for an hour straight without realizing, because the Libra on the other end just wants to make them feel heard.^{[7]
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- If you flip the script and let her do all the talking instead, she’ll be thrilled.
- Try showing signs of active listening when she talks. This means eye contact, head nodding, not interrupting, and asking clarifying questions.
- After a night of talking to you, she’ll probably be totally into you!

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Romance her.

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Libra women want a fairytale, and if you give her that, she’ll swoon. Women of this sign can be perfectionists in their love life. They want Hollywood, happily-ever-after, totally dreamy romance. This can leave them disappointed and eventually, bored. But you can be the exception.^{[8]
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- Take her on grand, romantic dates. For instance, supper on a sailboat, poetry under the moonlight, or a picnic at sunset will impress her.
- Look deeply into her eyes, brush strands of hair from her face, and slow dance to nice music. Anything ultra-romantic will be so exciting to her, and ultimately, another reason to be completely into you.

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Keep things fresh.

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In life (and the bedroom) Libras need excitement. She’s always on the hunt for new things to keep her entertained, so mix it up when you can. Keeping a Libra on her toes is how you keep her crushing on you. When it comes to physical intimacy, make sure that you give her the opportunity to switch things up when she wants to.^{[9]
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- When you’re seeing a Libra, try to surprise her at least once a week. For instance, take her to learn a unique activity, like horseback riding, oil painting, or knitting.
- When you’re getting physically intimate, make sure you give her the opportunity to change things up. Anything sexual should be decided together, but if you want to try something new, go ahead and ask her with suggestions at the ready.

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Be passionate with her.

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When seducing a Libra, physical intensity will probably be a must. She’ll likely be all about experimenting, openness, and wordlessly expressing exactly how into each other the two of you are. Though, just because her sign suggests that, don’t assume yet. Make sure the two of you chat about expectations and desires before you make any assumptions about what she may want.^{[10]
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- You could intensify your sexual experiences by playing up multiple senses. Light a sweet-smelling candle, play some sultry music, and get intimate by candlelight.
- Or, keep things super passionate by changing up your settings whenever you can. Try new times of day, new locations, and new experiences (like a striptease, for example!) to keep excitement levels high.

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Let her do her thing.

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To keep a Libra attracted to you, don’t hold her back. This sign gets stressed when they feel their freedoms are being limited. She could be totally smitten, and still, if she starts to feel even a little bit smothered, she’ll have the instinct to bolt. On the other hand, you want to make sure you’re getting what you need from the relationship, too.^{[11]
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- If you don’t mind leaving the relationship undefined, she’d probably appreciate that. In that case, just enjoy your time together and try not to mention anything that could freak her out.
- If you would be uncomfortable leaving things totally open, that’s completely understandable. In this case, try being open and honest with her.
- Tell her that you like her but for you, exclusivity is a must. Let her know that you want her to get what she wants, too. Ask her if you could chat about a compromise that might work for the both of you.

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Send sweet, flirty texts.

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By text, you can make a Libra feel like she's the only girl in the world. Her ultra-romantic side will adore having your 24/7 attention. To seduce her over text, make sure you focus on being personable, attentive, and polite.^{[12]
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- Send her a super sweet morning text. "Hey you! Just messaging to say I hope you slept well. 🥰"
- Send her one of her own selfies or a screenshot of her Instagram post. "And here I thought it was physically impossible for you to get more beautiful! 😲"