How to Respect and Be Open to All Beliefs

Last Updated: November 17, 2021 Approved

Being kind to people of other faiths is a must in a diverse world. Just having that skill can help you develop a lot of great friendships and learn a lot about other traditions and cultures.

Steps

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Look at people from other faiths as people, not as categories or religions. Don't block someone out just because their religion does not match up with yours.
- Different belief systems are honed and shaped by hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. Nature has created us all to have different beliefs for very good reasons.^{[1]
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Learn about other faiths and customs.
- Read up on traditions that are not your own, including, if possible,
- Attend a service or ceremony from another faith. Ask for permission and assistance with etiquette if you need it.
- Read outsiders' viewpoints on your own religion or belief system. Understand why others might not see it your way and notice what prejudice looks like, if you encounter any.
- Include philosophic and secular viewpoints in your study of other faiths.
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Look for similarities. While they may be called or observed differently, many traditions have similar core values, such as helping the needy, leading a moral, ethical life, and being loyal to the faith.
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Keep an open mind. If something is unfamiliar or different, don't shut it out. Explore it and understand it.
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Remember that belief (including your own) is just that: belief. The beliefs of those following other faiths were most likely learned much the same way you learned your own, from family, community, and participation in religious instruction.
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Take care when talking about religion. Many people hold it close to their hearts. Be prepared to change the subject or lighten up the conversation if it's headed in a bad direction.
- Avoid criticizing a religion if you don't really understand it. You may come across as ignorant and disrespectful.
- Separate the beliefs of extremists from the beliefs of regular people. Terrorists exist in many religions (from Islam to Christianity), so avoid insulting the entire religion when only the extremists are in the wrong.
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Avoid forcing your opinion or belief upon others. Be willing to explain if someone asks, but do not try to convert others.
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Just be kind.

Warnings

Some people take their religion to extreme levels. Try to keep your temper (even if someone else loses theirs) and if necessary, end the conversation politely but firmly.

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Not everyone likes talking about their faith. That's normal; try to respect that, too.

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If someone else believes that certain people deserve to be killed or harmed, this is not an acceptable belief. Only respect beliefs that involve other human beings' right to exist. For example, Nazis want to kill people, and this is morally unacceptable.

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