How to Live in Your Own Little World

Last Updated: September 17, 2021

Your own little world, is basically your world, in where you do and say what you want. It doesn't mean you do bad things, it's never okay to do bad things and no one can decide what's right or wrong morally, it just means that you don't have to pay attention to Culture, and what the world we live in (The physical world) says what you should and not do. The physical world we live in is made up of a bunch of cultures. People say you should dress a certain way, you should eat a certain way, and all these other little things that are based on how OTHER people want you to be, that aren't a truth. WHY should you... not put little wings on your shoes, and wear shorts over your skirts over your pants, and write "I like Pancakes" on your backpack? Well, maybe you don't want to do any of those things, but as long as it's morally right, we shouldn't have to live by what culture tells us what to do.

Steps

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Know what you like, what you don't like, and what your morals are. Don't pay attention to if it's right etiquette, or awkward or something. Like, for instance, if you like Peter pan lunch boxes, don't like people who talk on their cell phones really loud, and don't want to swear, or something.
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Realize that you don't have to do any of the things that you don't like or don't feel comfortable with. It's good to help people, and stuff, it's never okay to not be good, but you don't have to do things with culture. If you want to wear "girls clothes" and you're a boy, GO AHEAD! Even if people will make fun of you. (Who ever said that boys can't wear girls clothes and girls can't wear boys clothes? It's all culture, [the Bible doesn't say you can't]! Back in the day, girls weren't supposed to wear pants because of culture and etiquette, but they are now!)

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Learn to be independent. Being independent is helpful in a way that it will teach you the pride of doing your tasks yourself and the way you want.
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Fill your mind with whatever you want it to be filled with! You could have it filled with good thoughts, what your goals are, what you want to do, butterflies and pixies, whatever.
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Do what you want! Good suggestions would be:
- Read Books,
- Play Tennis on a wall at a school or tennis court or something,
- Learn to play an instrument like the Piano, or Violin, or something. Or, you could learn a new Language.
- Take up a hobby like juggling, baton twirling, etc.
- If you don't want friends, You could go to https://www.wikihow.com/Live-Without-Friends-During-School-Years
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If you do want friends, hang out with them! But never compromise who you want to be. If they don't like you, they're not your real friend. Unless you're doing bad things and they're worried about you. But, if you're doing the right thing, you're never wrong.
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Love yourself. Realize that you're a REALLY cool person! There is no one in the world like you. Did you know that? You probably heard it before, but think about it. You are different than anyone else in the world. Now one sees the world the way you do. You have a whole new perspective no one has ever seen the world before!

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Community Q&A

Question

Is it good to be self-aware?

Community Answer

Yes and no. People who are self-aware oftentimes have a deeper understanding of their minds and hearts than people who don't pause to reflect on their own thoughts and actions do. It's possible, of course, to be too introspective and too conscious of your own thoughts and feelings, to the point where you can't get outside your own head to enjoy life and other people.
Question

How can I be a leader in front of other people?

Community Answer

To be a true leader, you must take responsibility in obtaining higher knowledge about certain situations so that you can guide, teach and help your subordinates get through them efficiently.

Warnings

People may not like you for standing up for what you believe in. But, so many other people have done it, like John F. Kennedy, Martin Luther King, Gandhi, Mother Teresa, so remember, that it could be worth it in the end

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