Feel like Cupid, but without your arrow? Here's some commonly missed signals that women give off when they are attracted.

Steps

  1. 1
    Watch her actions closely. If she keeps fidgeting and doing small things with her hands (Playing with a cell phone, checking her nail polish), or more physical touching (twirling her hair, scratching her nose, rubbing her leg, licking her lips) that means she wants to gain your attention or she may be nervous. However, it may be unconscious preening too.
  2. 2
    She talks to you for strange reasons, looking for an excuse for communication. For an example, if she asks you, "Can I use your pencil sharpener?" and she's using a pen, it's obvious; she adores you.
  3. 3
    She laughs at your super lame jokes. For example, if she laughs hysterically or gives you a warm, welcoming smile after you say a rather awkward or not-at-this-time joke, like 0 telling 8 it has a belt.
  4. 4
    She may look at you with a seductive stare or become shy and look around hoping you will be the one to stare at her. If you catch her staring at you and she glances away quickly on more than one occasion, this is a sure sign she likes you. If you're looking at her and she's still looking at you, smile or wink. You don't want to turn this into a staring contest!
  5. 5
    She may pay a lot of attention to the things you do. If she knows a lot about you, she may seem to ask you about things not many others know about. You may see her around a lot more than other girls and/or she might talk to your friends to get your attention.
  6. 6
    She will smile in your presence, or show off her best aspects. This includes laughing, also, check for changes in her voice... it may be softer or happier when she is talking to you.

Warnings

  • These do not necessarily mean that a girl likes you, and a person that simply likes you as a friend may exhibit many of these signs.

Things You'll Need

  • A keen observation, memory, and sight
  • A confident attitude
  • Sensitive and civil manners
  • Ability to understand her feelings or expressions.
  • Intuition.
  • Do your homework on her interest and take part in them to show her you care.

About This Article

wikiHow is a “wiki,” similar to Wikipedia, which means that many of our articles are co-written by multiple authors. To create this article, 36 people, some anonymous, worked to edit and improve it over time. This article has been viewed 397,619 times.
204 votes - 78%
Co-authors: 36
Updated: August 12, 2019
Views: 397,619
Categories: Getting a Date