How to Flirt with an Aries Man

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Last Updated: December 13, 2021 References

If an Aries man is the apple of your eye, you might be wondering how to attract and seduce him. Along with Leo and Sagittarius, Aries is a fire sign with a fiery spirit and adventurous personality to match. Flirting is a good step to take with an Aries, who is naturally flirtatious himself. If you want to get his attention and get a romance going, we’ve come up with a list of ways to flirt with an Aries man and start the fire.

Method 1

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Dress yourself up.

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Wearing warm colors like red is a good way to get his attention. Mirroring his style or complementing his colors are ways to get his eyes on you. An Aries isn’t afraid to try out the latest fashion trends, so keep an eye on what’s in style to keep up with him.^{[1]
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- Wearing a bright orange sun dress or a crimson dress shirt is a great way to catch his eye.
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Method 2

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Use body language.

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Aries men are known for their sensuality, so flirt by using body language. Keep your eyes on him. Show your interest with a warm smile or lean in closer when he’s talking to you. Don’t be afraid to nod along when he’s talking, too. Aries men like to be shown they’re right or agreed with.^{[2]
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- Playing with your hair is a way to show your flirty side and hide your nerves.
- Laugh at his jokes and show off those pearly whites.
- More eye contact is a good way to show him you’re paying attention, but try not to stare.

Method 3

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Play a game of cat and mouse.

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Aries men love being on top, and that includes initiating a relationship. If you come out of the gates too strong, he might be turned off, so don’t be afraid to be coy now and then. Start a conversation, but hold out giving a compliment. Wait a few minutes to give him the chance to show his bold side, and then you can tell him how good he looks. Aries men love a good chase, so be patient, and make him work for your affections before going all in.^{[3]
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- “If I said I wanted to get outta here, what would you say?”
- “I’ve been looking forward to this night all week.”
- “I bet you’re full of surprises.”
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Method 4

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Offer him a compliment.

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These men like attention, so complimenting him is a good way to flirt. Subtlety isn’t their strongest suit, so this is a good way to let him know you’re interested. Be sincere, though because flattery can backfire if it comes off as too bold or too shallow. Aries men are truthful and like a partner they can trust. Try complimenting what he’s wearing or how good his dancing is.^{[4]
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- “That shirt really brings out your eyes.”
- “You have a great smile.”
- “You were the best dancer on the floor tonight.”

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Be clever.

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Aries men love clever communicators who offer them a bit of a challenge. A little wordplay is a great way to break the ice, so get your best one-liner ready. If you’re comfortable taking the leap, a sexy line is a bold move to get his adrenaline pumping.^{[5]
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- “What do you do for a living, besides looking sexy?”
- “There must be something up with my phone. Your number’s not in it yet.”
- “I might have some trouble not touching the artwork in front of me.”
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Method 6

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Give him a chance to show off.

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Aries like to show they’re number one, so let him show you his moves. If you’re out with friends, start a competition. Aries men have a drive to win like no other, so this is a good way for him to show you his best and for you to do the same. After it’s over, don’t forget to slip in a compliment about his strength or his physique.^{[6]
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- See who can build the best cocktail.
- Try to guess the next song that will play in the club.
- The best dancer gets to pick the next date.

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Start with a question.

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You can take the pressure off and get him to open up with a question. Aries men are honest communicators who aren’t afraid of a little debate. If this is your strategy, though, be careful not to bring him down. Tell him he makes good points or comment on his new perspective. Otherwise, just see where the conversation goes, and steer it if you need to.^{[7]
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- “How do you feel about pineapple on pizza?”
- “What’s your opinion about that band’s latest song?”
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Method 8

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Back off a little.

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This might be counterintuitive, but Aries men like to make the first move. If you kicked things off, don’t worry, just give him some space to be bold. You might be surprised where it gets you if you play your cards right. Remember, they love a good chase, so don’t steal their thunder by coming on too strong.^{[8]
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- Take a night off and hang out with some friends. It’ll give him time to think of a great date.
- See if you can get him to compliment you first and then reciprocate.
- If you ask him to dance, let him take the lead, and see if you can mirror him.

Method 9

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Surprise him.

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A little surprise can go a long way when you’re flirting with these guys. Compliment him on something unexpected or offer a suggestion for a new drink to try. Present him with tickets to a concert or ditch the bar scene and go to that dance club across town. The bold approach can show him you’re willing to take risks. Show him you can keep up with his energy by throwing him off his game now and then. ^{[9]
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- “I noticed you come here often. How about we go to the bar across town that just opened?”
- “You really like that band, so I got you tickets to their next show this weekend.”
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Method 10

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Get him something unique.

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A one-of-a-kind gift is a great way to show him he's special to you. It doesn’t necessarily have to be expensive, but it should be unique to him. Aries men like to stand out, so if you notice a good conversation piece, pick it up and show your Aries you were thinking of him. Truth be told, they typically value experiences over things, but something sporty or hand-engraved is a good way to go.^{[10]
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- You’ll score some points if you get him a jersey with his favorite player’s number.
- An engraved pocket watch or necklace can be good to complement his looks.
- A unique mug or stein can be a simple yet striking conversation piece he can use again and again and think of you every time.^{[11]
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Method 11

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Be honest and sincere.

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Showing the true you while you flirt can make him more comfortable. Asking some deeper questions or telling him so life ambitions can let him know you're after something more than a fling. Aries men might be considered playboys from time to time, but let him know you're not just another pretty face.^{[12]
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- Ask him about anything he might have on his bucket list. This may seem odd, but you can get to know a person by their goals and desires.
- Tell him about your most passionate hobby. Letting him see you light up by talking about what you enjoy is a great way to shine when you flirt.
- Let him know what you want in life. Aries men are attracted to those who are confident in who they are and want they want when it comes to romance, love, and career goals.
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