How to Flirt With a Boy when You Are 13 or 14

Last Updated: December 15, 2018

Ever wondered, as a 13 or 14-year-old girl, what it would be like if you flipped your hair in front of the school football team? Or maybe you dream of winking at that new boy in your class? This article will show you how to do these things, and others, in such a way as to playfully demonstrate your sexual attraction to any boy perfectly!

Steps

1
Learn how to relax around guys. Boys don't like an uptight girl who will adjust her makeup and hair every five seconds. The point is to not be so girly, but don't be one of the guys either. You will not be able to flirt unless you can find the perfect balance between one of the boys and a girly-girl.
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Practice flirting on guys you don't know and ones that you most likely will not see again. The mall would be the perfect place for this. Flirtatious behaviour includes winking, blowing kisses, tiling your hair, posing to show off your best features, giggling and blushing.

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3
Find a potential boy. Preferably one that you are attracted to.
- Glance up at him until your eyes meet, then smile at him. This is how you flirt.
- Get up to get a drink, not anything else, just as a drink, then pass by him on your way to the soda fountain - heading for a vending machine, kettle or other beverage containers will not work. It has to be as soda fountain, this will give him the idea you want to be noticed.
- Try to giggle with your friends (if they are with you). Don't giggle too loudly, though, or you may get kicked out of the church, class, the park, the mall or wherever else you are.
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Try doing as many of these activities as you think playfully show your sexual attraction to your target boy. There are many ways to show you are sexually attracted to a boy, here are some for a guy you don't know well:
- Wink at a guy when you catch him staring at you.
- When he walks by, try to stop whatever you are doing. If you do this enough, he will notice. Then he will think that you think he is so stunning.
- When you are walking down the hall and notice him alone, quickly say, "Hi!" and do a little wave. Make sure you also walk backwards so you can get a big glimpse of him.
- Lightly bump into him, and say, "Oh, I'm so sorry!" smile big and turn to walk away. After about four steps, look back. If he is still looking that means your tactic has worked!
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Try these ways to playfully show your sexual attraction to a guy you know pretty well:
- Always sign E-mails with "Love" at the end, like "Love, Sadie."
- Use a fake name to ensure the recipient can't tell who the signer really is.
- Talk about how much fun you had after you work on a project together or whatever.
- Make friends with his friends and be sure you leave a good impression on them too! That way they will talk to the guy you like about you.
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When you're walking with him or standing next time say you're cold and ask him for a hug or ask if he has a jacket or sweatshirt, but don't give it back that day then the next day when you see him tell him you're sorry and smile at him.

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Warnings

Some guys are very flattered when you show you are sexually attracted to them in as playful way, but they may attempt to take advantage of the situation. If you don't want to have sex with someone, it's wise to not show you are sexually attracted to them, even in a very fun and playful way. It's much better to chat with boys your own age, go on dates and have fun doing age appropriate things with your friends, whether you have a bit if a crush on them or not.

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