How to Defend Gay Rights

Bullying may happen to everyone, but the numbers for LGBTQ teens and youth are particularly alarming. LGBTQ kids and teens are twice as likely to experiment with alcohol and drugs, and four times more likely to try suicide, according to a recent study. Many states and the majority of school districts have no legislation or policies protecting LGBT students, which should shock and embarrass us all. No one should be afraid of being attacked because of their sexual orientation. Find out what you can do to help: ^[3]

• If someone in your work place is being discriminated, report the harassment to HR.
• Stand up and speak up for anyone who is being bullied in school (for their identity).

Many state legislatures continue to be hostile to LGBTQ equality. In 2015, state legislatures presented around 115 anti-LGBT laws, many of which would empower companies and organizations to refuse LGBTQ people services based on their religious beliefs. Another example of what we should be fighting against is a spate of recent laws aimed at preventing transgender and nonbinary individuals from using the bathroom of their choosing. View materials on state-by-state anti-discrimination provisions at the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). Support the Equality Act and see how you can get engaged in your local state. ^[4]

Every day, you may put your money where your ideals are. The first HRC Buyer's Guide was published more than 10 years ago with the goal of making it easy to support companies that have LGBTQ-inclusive policies. This means you can buy items from stores with LGBTQ owners, workers, and founders. ^[5]

• You can also use products, such as makeup, created by (small) LGBTQ businesses.

Tell a friend, family member, or loved one how much they mean to you by calling them. Marriage equality, as well as the greater topic of LGBTQ rights, is about everyone's freedom to express themselves freely, honestly, and courageously. So go ahead and be emotional those you care about how much you appreciate them for who they are. ^{[6] [7]}

It makes a difference, believe it or not, when you phone or write your legislators. If they support LGBTQ rights, thank them; if they don't, question them. In any case, remind them that there is still a lot of work to be done. ^[8]

In honor of equality, make a donation to your favorite LGBTQ-rights organization. There are wonderful groups all throughout the country that require your assistance in order to continue to serve others. Here are LGBTQ organizations that take donations: ^[9]

• The Trevor Project
• GLAAD
• It Gets Better Project
• Global Human Rights Defence
• Ali Forney Center

Living with dignity, integrity, joy, courage, and in community with others without fear of being condemned for who we are is what pride is all about. The majority of pride activities take place once a year, with some taking place in June to commemorate the Stonewall riots in New York City in 1969, a watershed point in modern LGBTQ social movements. The parades are intended to foster community and commemorate the movement's history. Going to a pride parade, whether you're an ally or LGBTQ individual, is a great way to show support to the LGBTQ community. ^[10]

Make no assumptions about people's gender identification or sexual orientation. Speak up against anti-LGBTQ harassment and discrimination, including homophobia, and transphobia. Defend yourself and others against anti-gay insults. Be encouraging to anyone who decides to come out. Participate in LGBTQ activities. All of these can help fight for LGBTQ rights and inclusiveness. ^[11]