How to Date Your Best Girl Friend if You're a Girl

Last Updated: December 31, 2021

You're a girl who enjoys hanging out with other girls, and you'd like to go out with one of your best friends. It's preferable if she understands how you feel and vice versa. Here is how to date your friend if you're a girl.

Steps

1
Spend time with her. Have a small chit-chat with her. Hang out at her house, have a slumber party go to the beach if you live near an ocean, and get to know her.
2
Find out if she is interested in other girls. Ask about her preferences. You could ask a few questions to get a sense of her relationship history, but this does not always indicate sexual preference. You could also try flirting with her to see if she responds. If you ask her directly, you'll get the most accurate information.
3
Tell her about yourself. It's crucial to be honest with the person you're interested in. Tell her about your past, your family, and your youth. Tell her about your hobbies and try to incorporate her in at least some of them.
4
Inform her about your sexuality. If she tells you a secret that she likes girls, make sure she knows you are safe to discuss the matter with. If she comes out to you, you should do the same. If she doesn't like girls, leave it at that.
5
Try making physical contact with her. Try holding hands, brushing against her shoulder, give her a hug, or smile. Hand holding is a sweet and simple gesture that is always in style. Touch her gently when you're talking or walking next to each other.
6
Ask her if she likes anyone. If you tell her that you have a crush on her and she is awkward, leave it be.
7
Ask her out. Don't be upset if she says no. If you want to keep it casual, invite her to the park with you. Ask her out for supper and a movie if you want it to be overtly romantic. Bring flowers or a present, and don't be hesitant to express your feelings.