How to Convince Your Parents to Buy You a Skateboard

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Last Updated: August 25, 2021 References Approved

If you’ve been watching some gnarly skateboarding videos or playing lots of Tony Hawk’s Pro Skater, you might be itching to get out there and grind on some rails. First thing’s first—you need a board! If you need to convince your parents to get you one, don’t worry. It may be easier than you think. We’ve put together a list of tips you can look through to help make your case.

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Ask when they’re in a good mood.

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Wait until they aren’t busy or stressed. Choosing the right time to ask them can be a key to success. Catch them in a good mood and when they’re free. If they’re super busy or had a rough day, hang back for a bit and wait until they settle down.^{[1]
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- On the ride home from school or after dinner can be safe bets. They’ll be finished with work and may be more open to getting you a skateboard.
- Try asking something like, “Hey dad, do you have a sec?” to make sure they have time to talk to you.

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Express gratitude when you ask.

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Tell them that you’re thankful for everything that they do for you. Acknowledge that buying a skateboard is extra money that they’ll spend. Express your appreciation for them while you ask so they recognize that while you do want a skateboard, you’re also grateful for what they give you.^{[2]
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- For instance, you could try something like, “Hi mom, I know you guys do a lot for me, and I really appreciate it. I was wondering if it would be okay if I got a skateboard.”

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Go over the health benefits.

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Skateboarding is a great way to get some exercise. In fact, it’s similar to other serious cardio workouts such as jumping rope and spinning. Skateboarding also develops key muscles like your legs, lower back, and your core. Use information about how skateboarding can improve your health to help convince your parents.^{[3]
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- You could say something like, “Sure, skateboarding is fun and all, but it’s also a great workout.”

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Tell them you’ll wear protective gear.

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Smooth over any safety concerns they may have. Most parents are going to question just how safe skateboarding can be. They might be worried about you getting hurt. Tell them their concerns are legit, and that you plan to always wear safety gear like a helmet, knee pads, and elbow pads.^{[4]
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- Try saying something like, “You’re totally right to be concerned, and I take it seriously, too. That’s why I’ll always wear a helmet and pads so I don’t get hurt.”^{[5]
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Talk about the social benefits of skateboarding.

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Focus on the friends you could make. There are usually groups of skaters around your school and at the local skatepark. Talk to your parents about how getting a skateboard can help you meet new people and make new friends.^{[6]
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- For instance, you could try saying something like, “I’d really like to be able to hang out with the other kids at the skatepark and a skateboard can help me get in with them.”

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Explain the positive aspects of skateboarding culture.

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Skateboarding sometimes gets a bad rap. If your parents think it's associated with drinking or drugs, don’t brush their concerns aside. Instead, explain that they may be surprised to know that most skaters these days actually don’t drink or do drugs. Tell them that the skateboarding community can be really friendly and positive.^{[7]
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- You can try saying something along the lines of, “It’s actually just about having fun with your friends and trying out cool new tricks.”

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Tell your parents you’ll learn at home first.

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Say you’ll stick to the driveway until you get better. Your parents may be worried that you’ll get in over your head too quickly. Tell them that you don’t plan to take to the streets on the first day. Explain that you want to spend a bunch of time using your driveway and neighborhood to practice. That way they can see you get better at it and may feel more comfortable.^{[8]
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- You could even say something like, “I was actually planning to set up some ramps and stuff on the sidewalk to practice.”

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Mention how much fun it could be.

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At the end of the day, it’s all about having a good time. Talk to your parents about how much you’ll enjoy skateboarding. Tell them you’re super excited about giving it a try and you think it’ll be a ton of fun.^{[9]
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- For example, you can say something like, “I promise I’ll always wear a helmet and safety pads. I’m just really pumped to practice skating!”

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Earn credit for the cost of the skateboard.

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Offer to do more chores and keep your grades up. Skateboards aren’t free, and if you don’t have a way to make money, you’ll have to depend on your parents to buy one for you. You can earn credit and convince them to buy you a board by asking them for chores or responsibilities around the home that you can do. You can also commit to improving your grades in school so they see how responsible you are, which may help convince them to get you a skateboard.^{[10]
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- Chances are there are plenty of things you can find around your home that you can do for your parents. You can offer to clear out the garage, walk the dogs, clean up the kitchen, or something like that.
- Show them your test scores and report cards so they can see that you’re really trying at school.

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Offer to match the cost if you can.

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Tell them you can pay for half of the price. If you do have a little bit of money saved up from an allowance or job, try using it to help convince your parents. They may be more likely to help you get a skateboard if you’re offering to pay for some of it. They may even decide to just buy it for you if you make an honest offer to pay for a portion of the cost!^{[11]
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Community Q&A

Question

Is it dangerous to ride a skateboard?

Jon Depoian
Skateboarding Instructor
Jon Depoian is a Skateboarding Instructor and the Owner of Intro2Skateboarding, an organization based in Orange County, California that provides professional private, home-school, after-school, birthday party, and summer camp skateboard lessons for beginners and experienced skateboarders alike. Jon has over 21 years of skateboarding experience and over 10 years of skateboard instruction experience. He also has extensive experience producing street skateboarding videos and skating competitions.

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Expert Answer

It can be! This is why it's so important to wear a helmet, knee pads, and elbow pads when you're riding. Also, before you start riding, learn how to balance on the board while it's on grass or carpet. This way you won't hurt yourself if you fall off while you're getting used to your deck.
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What if my parents are afraid I will get hurt?

Community Answer

Remind them that there are lots of dangers in life but as long as you take the proper precautions, many things do not have to be off limits. Skateboarding can be dangerous, but if you make smart decisions and wear safety gear and follow training guidelines, it doesn't have to be.
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Can I take my skateboard to the airport?

Community Answer

Yes, you can. Make sure it is packed in a bag with enough storage. They will require to check your bags. If not, then it is best that you leave your skateboard home.
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How can I convince a parent that a skateboard will be safe for me as a girl?

Community Answer

Equality! Girls can do the same things boys can! But if you think it will help, ask for or buy your own pair of elbow and knee pads and helmet.
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What if I have the money for a skateboard, but my parents won't let me bring one in the house?

Community Answer

Use your own money to buy a skateboard and then don't bring it into the house. If you want to use it, keep it in your garage, yard, or at a friend's house.
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What do I do if my dad will sell my dog if I get a skateboard?

Community Answer

Think about which you love and care about more - a new skateboard or your dog - and make your decision based on that. It's probably not worth it sacrificing your dog. Try to reason with your father, though. Ask him why he feels the need to do this and try to come to some compromise. Offer to earn money and buy your own skateboard, if that is the issue. Explain that you will still take care of your dog, and will be careful on your skateboard.
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How do I convince my parents I'm mature enough to get a skateboard?

Community Answer

Take care of your responsibilities without them asking. For example, keep your room clean and get good grades at school. Promise to always wear a helmet when riding too.
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What if my birthday has passed and Christmas is a long way away, but I need the skateboard at a specific date?

Community Answer

Explain to them when you need it and why. Maybe ask for it as an 'early' Christmas gift, so they won't have to buy you something else on Christmas. Or just offer to do any chores or whatever you need to to earn the skateboard (or the money for it).
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What if my parents say that skateboards are too expensive?

Community Answer

Try to get the money by doing chores. You can also look online or the Goodwill to find a used one. They are not as expensive.
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What if one parent is okay with you having a skateboard, but the other isn't?

Community Answer

Try to get them to discuss it together with you. Be prepared with your case for why you should be able to have one. Since it will be two against one it should end in your favor.

Warnings

Always wear a helmet whenever you’re skateboarding.

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This article was co-authored by Jon Depoian. Jon Depoian is a Skateboarding Instructor and the Owner of Intro2Skateboarding, an organization based in Orange County, California that provides professional private, home-school, after-school, birthday party, and summer camp skateboard lessons for beginners and experienced skateboarders alike. Jon has over 21 years of skateboarding experience and over 10 years of skateboard instruction experience. He also has extensive experience producing street skateboarding videos and skating competitions. This article has been viewed 56,669 times.

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