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Does your boyfriend play American football? Here you will learn how to give him support and be his #1 fan.
Steps
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1Understand that he will be busy a lot with practices and games. It may seem that football is more important than you, but it's important to always support him. Even if you are mad at him, he's out there on the field thinking of you and wanting to do better because you're in the stands watching him.
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2Go to his games and practices to show you care. He'll appreciate that you are showing support and that you care about him.
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3Learn the game. If you don't already know the rules about football, the internet will be your best bet. Or, you could just ask your boyfriend for a few pointers. He'll be glad you are interested and are trying to become more engaged in his sport.
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4Sit with his family when going to his games. That will gain you major girlfriend points! His parents will see how supportive you are just by showing up. Also, you get to spend time with his family.
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5Make signs, T-shirts with his name on it, or wear his team colors when going to his games. It'll show him you are his #1 fan.
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6Get to know his teammates. You will be seeing them quite often so get used to being around them a lot. Bring them snacks for after practice if you'd like. Doing so will show them that you aren't only watching your boyfriend out there. After all,they play football as a team.
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7If they lost a game, give him a huge hug and tell him he did great (but, do the same if he won, too). Guys tend to get sensitive towards the game, so be careful when you use constructive criticism. Your guy is already feeling bad because they lost, so just hug him and tell him he'll always be your favorite player.
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8Give him a massage after games/practices. It will calm his nerves and show that you care about his stress. He may give you a massage in return!
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9Before games send a quick text message saying how you will be there and you're just sure he will do great. Things like that will be sure to get him pumped up and ready for the game. But also understand that if he wants to stop texting you an hour before the game starts, let him. He has to warm up and clear his mind. He has a role in the game and he has to make sure he's one-hundred percent focused.
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10Make sure he knows that you care and that you understand he will have a hectic schedule. It will all be worth it in the end. You'll be able to point out that, That's your guy out there. There's nothing more your boyfriend will love than a very supportive girlfriend. Always have fun with it! He will see it's not just a "job" for you to be there, he'll love that you are having a good time!
Warnings
- Do not skip a game because you're mad at him. It will bum him out and possibly result in him doing poorly in his game.Thanks!
- Don't date a football player if you're not up for his crazy schedule. If you can't handle it then you shouldn't be dating an athlete in the first place.Thanks!
- If you don't show up to his games there will possibly be a girl(s) that see you are not there and try to find your man to kiss his butt.Thanks!
- Don't fight with his teammates. There's a possible chance he may choose their say over yours.Thanks!
- Be prepared to be bear hugged by a slightly sweaty and dirty boy after games. If you truly love him, this won't be an issue.Thanks!
