How to Be More Comfortable as a Gay Person in Society

Be confidence in your abilities. Nothing beats being yourself and letting folks know where you stand on issues. You are beautiful just the way you are, and you shouldn't have to pretend to be someone else.

Don't be concerned if others do not accept you. Acceptance is wonderful, but as an LGBTQ person, you will undoubtedly have difficulties with it. Keep your chin up and keep moving forward. You'll make friends and meet people who truly care about you.

Give no attention to homophobic opinions. Some individuals may not be as open-minded as you are, but if you listen to what they have to say, you will be the more mature person in this situation. Words might be hurtful, but it's best to brush them aside and get on with your life.

Speak up and stand up for yourself and others. Make your voice heard. Explain what phrases are acceptable to use for the LGBT community when others use things like "dyke," "fag," or "that's so gay." Others, particularly heterosexual people, should be educated and encouraged to become allies. Encourage heterosexuals to think about their privilege, gender roles, and sexuality. If someone is being bullied or insulted for their identity at school or a workplace, tell an adult or report them to HR.

Keep in mind that you're not alone. There are a lot of LGBTQ individuals in all kinds of communities, and there are a lot of people who will help you if you need it. There may be agencies, groups, advisers, family members, and friends who can help you, even if it's only someone to vent to. Talking to someone during this difficult time will be quite beneficial and will help you realize that you are not alone; millions of people are going through the same thing.