How to Attract an Aquarius Man

Co-authored by Aly Rusciano

Last Updated: December 12, 2021 References

Fun, light-hearted, and creative? The Aquarius man you have a crush on is one awesome and social guy. You want him to notice you, but how can you attract him without looking like you’re trying too hard? Keep reading because we’ve got all the tips and tricks you’ll need to attract an Aquarius man.

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Be independent.

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Aquarians are drawn to those who march to the beat of their own drum. Stand out from the crowd and grab his attention by just being you! He will be captivated by your radiant personality.^{[1]
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- Show that you have your own opinions. Speak up during work meetings, or raise your hand during class. Don’t be afraid to let your voice be heard!
- Wear clothes that you like, even if they’re not trendy, to let your unique style shine.
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Method 2

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Keep things light-hearted and fun.

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Sharing your feelings can make an Aquarius pretty uncomfortable. Aquarians have a hard time expressing their emotions, especially in group settings. When first trying to attract an Aquarius man, lean away from the personal and emotional conversations. He wants to have fun with you, not reveal his deepest and darkest secrets.^{[2]
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- Ask him questions about his favorite hobbies, job, or day-to-day life like “What do you like to do in your free time?” and “Where’d you go for lunch?”

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Talk to his friends.

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Attract an Aquarius man’s friends to attract him. An Aquarius holds their friends close to their hearts, so get to know his friends and let them get to know you. Take every opportunity to go out with his friend group—where they go, you go.^{[3]
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- Who knows? Maybe his friends will start telling him just how awesome you are.
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Be a good friend to him.

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An Aquarius man is most comfortable around his friends, so be one of his buds. When trying to build a relationship, focus on being a friend to him first. Be there for him when he needs you most, text him funny pictures, and have fun with him. Soon enough, he’ll get comfortable with you and ask you to hang out one-on-one.^{[4]
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- Start a friendship with him as you would with any other person. He’s more than just a friend to you, but he doesn’t need to know that just yet!

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Text him randomly.

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An Aquarius man is anything but strategic. He functions on jolts of inspiration and admires those who do too, so get him inspired with random texts throughout the day. The messages don’t have to be calculated, especially since he won’t think too hard about texting you. Let him know what’s on your mind in a cool and casual way. Bonus points if you tell him a joke or a fun fact!^{[5]
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- “You’re never going to believe the joke I just heard🤣”
- “Did you know that snakes can predict earthquakes? Not something I thought I’d learn today😂”
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Be creative.

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An Aquarius is attracted to those who think outside the box. Attract him with your originality by casually showing him something you made, or solving a problem with a unique idea. Let your imagination shine when you’re around him.^{[6]
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- Post a picture of your latest creative project on social media. Let him be amazed by your creativity!
- Calm an argument between friends when he’s around with an approach no one else has thought of.

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Let him figure things out.

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A good mystery is more appealing to an Aquarius than being upfront. Rather than telling him how you feel, let him figure things out. He’ll be more attracted to you if he’s able to say he thinks you like him first. Try to play it cool when you’re around him—don’t try too hard!^{[7]
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- Act like he doesn’t get your heart pumping when he’s around, as if you’re totally not crushing on him. Keep your gaze straight ahead and talk to him as if he were any other friend.
- Not showing him any interest will actually make him more interested.
- He’ll be drawn to you and your life just from you doing you.
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Challenge him.

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An Aquarius man loves a good chase, so make him want you. Aquarians don’t want an easy relationship—they like being kept on their toes! Show him your independence, intelligence, and creativity by challenging him in social settings. This will set you apart from the rest.^{[8]
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- Be busy with your life. You’re not 100% available 24/7, so make him think he has to earn your affection.
- Share your opinions even if they go against his. Give him a reason to start a debate so you can show off how smart you are.
- Is he into sports? Find out his favorite team and root for the revival. This is also a great way to spend time with him.^{[9]
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Give him space.

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Aquarians need a partner who understands their need for alone time. He needs space to reflect on his past, present, and future. Someone who doesn’t guilt trip him into spending time with him will immediately attract him.^{[10]
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- When he goes off on his own, let him.
- If he asks for some time to think, give it to him.
- Show him your independence and give him space by doing activities without him.
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Be carefree.

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An Aquarius man is drawn to free spirits. Show him you’re laid back by going with the flow, especially as you try to form a relationship with him. Let him pick out your date location, or even let him order for you at a restaurant.^{[11]
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- Try to worry less when you’re around him. He’ll be drawn to your positive and optimistic outlook.

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Be yourself.

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Ultimately, Aquarians are attracted to those who love themselves. The best way you can get him to notice you is just by being yourself. Your smile and energy is contagious, and he’s blind if he doesn’t notice just how amazing you are.

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